The Bitter Sweet Life…

…of a girl who thinks too much.

Bootcamp May 10, 2009

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Very fleetingly, it was mentioned yesterday that there’s been a discussion about having a 3 month course within the military that people can do over a summer as trial period to get people interested. I loved the idea. Personally I believe that both men and women should get recruited into the military and since I wasn’t, this would maybe be a good way to learn something of it without having to do it for a year atleast. A bootcamp if you will. 

I would love to do this if this were possible! :) I’d probably hate every moment of it, and wish I never signed up for it, but what a challenge it would be! I wonder if they’d take in a short asthmatic girl with absolutely no stamina what-so-ever? ;)  

Kisses to all.

 

Good Quote 2 April 25, 2009

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“Ever noticed how all of women’s problems start with MEN? MENtal illness, MENstrual cramps, MENtal breakdown, MENopause, GUYnocologist. And when we have REAL trouble, it’s a HISterectomy.”
-?

 

XX’s and XY’s March 11, 2009

So, back at work, since that is where I now a days update my blogg from. ;)

I remember there being something I wanted to share with me today when I was at my apprentice place, but now, sitting here, with my computer in front me, I can’t for the life om me remember what that was!

So, moving along, my faith in the younger generations of XX’s of the world has been regained a little bit this week! All the wonderful people I’ve been talking to on the train home from work so far have been either been females of the retired kind, or males of all generations. Thus, no women of the non-grey haired kind. ;)

I was starting to wonder why this was and started reflecting on why I didn’t talk to them as often. This is what I noticed: most of them look angry and/or grumpy, have headphones on, are talking on the phone, or just generally looking at me as if to dare me to talk to them. One girl whom I even knew from earlier looked unapproachable (although admittedly, i don’t know if I’ve ever seen her as approachable) and tried to keep it as short as possible. I know she was tired from a really long day at work, or maybe a bad day at work, but then it would still be nice with a smile, and “hey, cool to see you here! I have to admit though, I’m so tired from work today that I was hoping to get some sleep on the ride home, wake me up when we get to Helsingborg?” .

..Or anything other than the shortest possible replies to kill the conversation as soon as possible. But she’s not a friend, so it doesn’t matter. But it’s no surprise that girls can feel so unapproachable when even accquintances are so hard to speak to. I shouldn’t be so harsh though, because personally I don’t like to talk to people there’s a chance I’ll be meeting again either. I’m much to self-concious for that. I’m just one of the many out there I guess.

Anyhow, this monday, on my way to work I finally met girl/woman with an open demeanor! She smiled towards me as she sat down and actually replied to my opening que (something like “sorry, I’m an expert at spreading my things all around me”). Thinking that this could actually be one of those girls who don’t mind talking to strangers I went ahead and tried out the waters of this untried territory and there was success!

She was fascinating, and we had quite a few things in common I realized. As she got upp to get off the train she asked for my name and I  realized all too late that I should have taken her number! …I mean it’s not like I have enough friends in this little town. ;)  

Sweet Kisses to all!

 

Toys and Joys! April 8, 2008

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Yay, my dad’s in town!

…Well, in the same country as me anyway, which is all the same to me since that’s a few miles closer to home than usually anyway. ;) So now all I have to do is wait for my mom to do the same so I can get a visit from them! *hint to the parents here!*

Well, onto some more x-rated topics me and F had a wonderfull evening a few nights ago. hehe. Girls night at the villa! Lots of toys for girls for once! :) The pictures are kinda fuzzy cuz little maina was a little drunk but you get the idea. *wink* I felt like a virgin all over again seeing what kind of kinky toys were available! LoL.

After that, it was off to a party at a friends friend place and an early night in because someone got a little bi too drunk. Heh. But that’s ok, it was all good and I realized that I have to crash some more parties a little more often, cuz it’s hard not having a good time with so many strange unknown people around oneself. So many to talk to! :)

And finally, tickets are being sold for the spex now! Anyone who’s anyone got to come. ;) (I’ll be sitting on the second floor at school selling tickets next tuesday if anyone’s interested!)

Alright, enough “commercializing” as a friend calls it, and I’m off!

Sweet kisses to all!

 

Saffronbuns and Crazy Smiles! December 6, 2007

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Had a really nice, girly evening yesterday. Got spontanously invited by a few girls in my class to bake some “Lussekatter” (direct translation according to me: saffronbuns!).

 

Haven’t done anything this christmas-y for a very long time! 

 

…And the lussekatter were without exaggeration the best I’ve ever tasted. This, by the way, is proof of the fact that all I did was basically sit and look pretty while the rest of the girls took control and stood for the great company. Tasty, tasty saffron buns for dinner. As well as gingerbread cookies, coffee and glögg. ;)  

Hehe, I doubt all that was as appreciated by my stomach as my tastebuds, and the coffee (even though it was only about 1/4th of a cup) made me so hyperactive I could barely fall asleep 7 hours later at 2 am. No, I don’t drink coffee. Yes, you may as well give me drugs since I imagine it will give me the same kick. ;) It’s like Coca-Cola for a 6 year-old. hehe

Actually come to think of it, next time I want to party, but without the alcohol, I’m just gonna get my high off of coffee and sugar, lots of it. *crazy laugh*!!!

Sweet christmas-y kisses to all. :D

 

The Game! May 14, 2007

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I have to say, I really miss the Stockholm scene sometimes. ;) I know how they play their game, it’s straightforward (according to me anyway) and they’re open to variety. But then again, maybe it’s not the Sthlm men I miss, but rather the understanding of the game that I miss.

I mean here in HBG, what is it the guys want? A relationship or a fuck? Make up your mind. And how can one base a relationship on a one night stand? I don’t think I’ve ever seen such a big collection of horny little players of the game as I have here. And that’s pretty well done considering that Stockholm is the smallest city I’ve ever lived in before coming to HBG! But maybe it’s the student scene. Who knows. If anyone’s wondering, I’ve got a boyfriend, but having mostly guy friends, I get frusterated hearing them talk. :)

It’s a funny feeling so insecure in a game that I was so secure in before.

The plus side in HBG though, is the women… much better than the sthlm women. More open, less defensive and nicer over-all… Less bitchy. So good on you girls! :D (This is ofcourse meant to all those girls who don’t go after guys they KNOW has a girlfriend. Hehe. Although I guess that goes for the men as well, though they seem to have a little more respekt in this regard)

Alrighty, I have finally finished one of my papers, and have 6 more to go! Take care all you friendly women of this little town. :D